New to sex toys, or upgrading your collection? This guide walks you through how to choose the right toy in New Zealand — by experience level, by what feels good, and by material, power and budget. Everything below is body-safe advice, and every order from 1sttoy ships fast in 100% discreet packaging NZ-wide.
1. Start with what kind of stimulation you enjoy
External (clitoral) stimulation: If you enjoy clitoral sensation, look at bullet vibrators, clitoral suction toys (which use gentle air pulses) and wand massagers for broad, powerful stimulation.
Internal (G-spot) stimulation: Choose a curved G-spot vibrator or a classic dildo. The curve is what targets the G-spot.
Both at once: Rabbit vibrators stimulate the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously — a top pick for blended orgasms.
For him: Strokers and masturbators provide penile stimulation, cock rings help maintain firmer erections, and prostate massagers target the P-spot.
For couples: Remote and app-controlled wearable vibrators and vibrating couples' rings are designed for shared play, including long-distance.
2. Pick a beginner-friendly size
If it's your first toy, smaller is smarter. Start with a slim vibrator or a small, tapered butt plug, then size up later once you know what you enjoy. There's no prize for starting big — comfort equals better orgasms.
3. Choose a body-safe material
Stick to non-porous, body-safe materials: medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, glass and stainless steel. These don't harbour bacteria and are easy to clean. Avoid cheap, porous "jelly" materials. Every toy's material is listed in its product description at 1sttoy.
4. Rechargeable vs battery
Rechargeable USB toys are more powerful, quieter and cheaper over time — the right choice for most people. Battery toys still have a place as affordable backups or travel toys.
5. Don't forget lube
Water-based lube is compatible with every toy and every condom, making it the safest all-rounder. It's essential for anal play, and it makes everything more comfortable and pleasurable. Avoid silicone lube on silicone toys.
6. Care for your toy
Clean your toy with warm water and mild unscented soap before and after every use, dry it fully, and store it separately. Looked after well, a quality body-safe toy lasts for years. For more, see our FAQ.
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